"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Advice please fellas

Nick1886

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Ok here's a quickie.

Basically there's this girl that I would bang but don't want to go out with at school. She's quite innocent, don't know if she's a virgin but she's never had a boyfriend - im pretty sure I could only seal the deal after several months in a relationship. She's really into me and I don't feel the same but it's there if I want it, which I do.

What should I do? I'm tempted to say **** it I can do better but reading all you guys' journals some people settle for sex with girls below your batting average. Don't really want things to get messy and get a bad rep tbh
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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apocolipto

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Ask yourself if your fine with it.If you have any doubt, no.
 

AlexLefty

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If anything, it's good experience.

I know of guys that never settle, and have thus never been laid.

There are also guys that settle too much and have a bad reb.

Find your balance.
 

LearningSlowly

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Hooking up with an ugly girl will make you a non-option to hot girls that know her. I've been shut out of a social circle entirely after having sex with their unattractive friend. I do occasionally do it with girls below my standard, but they are completely separate from any other options, and cant tell anyone that matters (so same school might be a bad idea).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nick1886

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When I say below my average I bat at 8 and she's a 6.5/7 with a huge ass but yeah I might just wait for a party to try the hook-up because I really cant be ****ed to do this boyfriend **** even though thats probably the best way. Sorry for my indecision but I have two 9s in play (also at school) that I dont want to compromise even though I need a bonk
 
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