"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Indy95

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Ok so I got the number...might have taken a little longer than I should have (2 weeks). Been talking to multiple fish but this one's the bigger catch. It just so happens that one of her best girlfriends is also a good friend of mine and we were having this conversation today. The girl eventually got brought up in our conversation and I said I was sorta interested in her (I know for a fact I can trust her to keep it confidential) but the mutual friend told me "haha I don't want break your heart but I don't think she likes you that way..."

So what do I do in this situation? Move on, NEXT? Or should I spend some more time building rapport? Ignore? I'm assuming that indirect confirmation that I've been stuck in the LJBF area...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just go for other chicks man. It's not like she's out of the picture, but it sucks if you end up chasing her for weeks or months to no avail.

Also, when you get responses like that, you don't need more rapport, you need to be more direct and sexual.
 
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Its the same old question you have to ask yourself. If you had 10 other smoking hot chicks to be dealing with, would you even be thinking about her?

The other advice was spot on, just go direct and be sexual with her. Either she'll blow you off or you get what you want, either way there's no more wondering
 
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