"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Indy95

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Ok so I got the number...might have taken a little longer than I should have (2 weeks). Been talking to multiple fish but this one's the bigger catch. It just so happens that one of her best girlfriends is also a good friend of mine and we were having this conversation today. The girl eventually got brought up in our conversation and I said I was sorta interested in her (I know for a fact I can trust her to keep it confidential) but the mutual friend told me "haha I don't want break your heart but I don't think she likes you that way..."

So what do I do in this situation? Move on, NEXT? Or should I spend some more time building rapport? Ignore? I'm assuming that indirect confirmation that I've been stuck in the LJBF area...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just go for other chicks man. It's not like she's out of the picture, but it sucks if you end up chasing her for weeks or months to no avail.

Also, when you get responses like that, you don't need more rapport, you need to be more direct and sexual.
 
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Its the same old question you have to ask yourself. If you had 10 other smoking hot chicks to be dealing with, would you even be thinking about her?

The other advice was spot on, just go direct and be sexual with her. Either she'll blow you off or you get what you want, either way there's no more wondering
 
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