"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Indy95

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Ok so I got the number...might have taken a little longer than I should have (2 weeks). Been talking to multiple fish but this one's the bigger catch. It just so happens that one of her best girlfriends is also a good friend of mine and we were having this conversation today. The girl eventually got brought up in our conversation and I said I was sorta interested in her (I know for a fact I can trust her to keep it confidential) but the mutual friend told me "haha I don't want break your heart but I don't think she likes you that way..."

So what do I do in this situation? Move on, NEXT? Or should I spend some more time building rapport? Ignore? I'm assuming that indirect confirmation that I've been stuck in the LJBF area...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just go for other chicks man. It's not like she's out of the picture, but it sucks if you end up chasing her for weeks or months to no avail.

Also, when you get responses like that, you don't need more rapport, you need to be more direct and sexual.
 
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Its the same old question you have to ask yourself. If you had 10 other smoking hot chicks to be dealing with, would you even be thinking about her?

The other advice was spot on, just go direct and be sexual with her. Either she'll blow you off or you get what you want, either way there's no more wondering
 
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