advice on ms. flake

[princeofpersia420]

whatup boys, need some advice here...

the quick and dirty:

girl in my class, gives me looks, whatever, get her number, send her a text on a friday, she responds but says she's busy, im like eh whatever, a week later on friday i text her again, no response. strike 2. then a week later, over T-giving, i text her asking if she's in the area ( i think she lives somewhat near me), no response. so im like eh, i can take a hint....NEXT


then, after class the other day, on my way out she comes up and starts talking to me..WTF?? should i CALL as opposed to TEXT? lol... i have no idea.

 

[katatonia]

Just because she's talking to you it does not mean she's interested. She just liked the attention you gave her.

 

[Proselytiser]

She has your number, if she wants to use it she will...

 

[DonGorgon]

young cute girls have many men to choose from and often they have to ignore many or the guys chasing or they will not have time to even breath.. its 50% and the skill once you get lucky enough to get a response.

 

[Cinamon]

Wait till she asks you out now. You have offered on three occasssions, now its her turn.

 

[iliketennis]

yeah forget about her

 

[women haze]

Wait till she asks you out now. You have offered on three occasssions, now its her turn.

Bad Advice because she is not going to call him...Men always make the first move.

 

[princeofpersia420]

sooo..... yes or no on asking her out in person when i see her? or at least asking her where she stands / what she wants? i mean, at what point does it become creepy/off-putting? but i feel like if she doesnt want anything to do with me, she wouldnt come up and talk to me, right? is she pretty much telling me she's interested, but come stronger/differently????

 

[SchoolBoy]

sooo..... yes or no on asking her out in person when i see her? or at least asking her where she stands / what she wants? i mean, at what point does it become creepy/off-putting? but i feel like if she doesnt want anything to do with me, she wouldnt come up and talk to me, right? is she pretty much telling me she's interested, but come stronger/differently????

She came to to talk to you because she's being nice.

It's becoming creepy/off-putting already because you aren't even dating this girl and you're already over-thinking about this.

Who cares how she feels about you. That's total AFC thinking.

Don't hesitate, be a man and ask her out in person.

 

[princeofpersia420]

schoolboy, truth, thats what i needed to hear. if she rejects me in person, that aint a hint, thats the truth.

 

[Cinamon]

Bad Advice because she is not going to call him...Men always make the first move.

Men dont always make the first move, plenty of girls are happy to pursue guys. If someone asked me out a coupleof times and I genuinly couldnt make it, I know it would be down to me to ask them out the next time if i liked them.

 

[princeofpersia420]

but cinamon, she's really shy and says she "doesn't get out much"....despite being super cute....could this affect things? ah **** it, im gonna ask her next time i see her...some girls are too cute to care about this **** with

 

[DonGorgon]

Bad Advice because she is not going to call him...Men always make the first move.

Women will call the men that they like.. and not the ones they dont.. she wont call him..

 

[alphaace]

The bigger problem here is why are you trying to make plans with her on a FRIDAY NIGHT. You should have other things to do. Now she knows you have absolutly nothing going on on party nights.

 

[Joe Stud]

I agree with sitting back, and if/when she calls, cool... nail it down. If not (and she probably wont), theres no sense in "devaluing yourself" by calling again. Go spin plates. Actions speak louder than words (if she doesn't call, theres no interest).