HeadLightsOn
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Yea but look to his drummer Kenny Aronoff for the REAL rhythm - that guy can drum!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
advice on boyfriend objection from much younger girl.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jcjetty
Don Juan
QUOTE="HeadLightsOn, post: 2295478, member: 112526"]I'm not sure I agree with this. Women have specific reasons for mentioning the 'boyfriend' and it's not always to put you off, eg it can be ASD.[/QUOTE]nIt familiar with ASD what is that?
jcjetty
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Gentlemen. I've traded the 21 year old cashier in for a 39 year old dancer! Man she is smoking hot! One of the first things I told her is your really lucky I usually don't give women my age a second look! On really and how young are the girls you usually date? I told her no I don't look my age, my sons friend mom thought I was 32!, I don't like dating girls that look older than me! Set the hook! The next morning she texts me and says I like you yada yada I replied I wish I had more time to get to know you! Her reply was you make time for what's important. I told her whoa look at the ego assuming your important enougg for me to spend time with you... Reeling that baby in! Any advice on dating a stripper? Lay it on me guys!
jcjetty
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wtf? She is smoking hot. She looks like she is in her mid twenties
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She's not supposed to be still trying to be in there at that age. The stripper lifestyle is full of corrosive attitudes, but bigneil will argue it's the same rulesets that "hot girls" run by.
Glumix
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My preference go for this version : "I will call you when you are single.".
You have two plates in the making.
Make the stripper do everything for you. Don't make the mistake of treating her like a normal girl. It's basically play her then lay her. Don't attempt any form of relationship beyond f.ucking her. It's basically get her excited then lay. Don't keep her around too long.
With the younger chick you might have to 'push- pull' to get a result. Giving her too much attention might just build her ego up to the point of keeping you in a loop of frustration . Finding the stripper and working on her will let you cool of a little on the younger one and leave her wondering.
Make the stripper do everything for you. Don't make the mistake of treating her like a normal girl. It's basically play her then lay her. Don't attempt any form of relationship beyond f.ucking her. It's basically get her excited then lay. Don't keep her around too long.
With the younger chick you might have to 'push- pull' to get a result. Giving her too much attention might just build her ego up to the point of keeping you in a loop of frustration . Finding the stripper and working on her will let you cool of a little on the younger one and leave her wondering.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
MOST dancers are the best of women {sexy} and the worst {even crazier}. She probably won't have any money.... spent it gambling or some stupid **** {they make 40-60k a year or MORE if really good in an upscale}> SHE hasn't planned for the day she can't dance, she's expecting to find a guy she can mooch off. AND, no matter what they say, only about 1 in 20 actually is working their way through College
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This guy is right. Professional moochers who have bodies that get a lot of attention. The faces aren't even usually all that, they know their angles and makeup.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I've been dating women in their 20s for about a year now, after a self imposed exile. They ALL claim to have some kind of BF... It's strange, maybe it's a generational thing I don't know, but I think they do this because they KNOW there really isn't any kind of future with an older guy and they say this sort of thing to let you know that if ANYTHING happens it's your fault, and it will NOT be permanent.
I always just ignore this and keep trying to make dates. When you see her and she gives you high IOI, or if she reaches out to you try to make a date. If she won't go out with you, then just move on. One of two things will happen, she'll drift away, or she'll come after you hard. If you know she wants you and mentioned her BF then just say, "Hey, I don't care about him, what you do when you're not with me is your business."
Never dated a stripper.... but I had a room mate when I was in the Army that had strippers in and out of the apartment all the time. Never looked like anything serious, as long as you're just having fun I see nothing wrong with this.
I always just ignore this and keep trying to make dates. When you see her and she gives you high IOI, or if she reaches out to you try to make a date. If she won't go out with you, then just move on. One of two things will happen, she'll drift away, or she'll come after you hard. If you know she wants you and mentioned her BF then just say, "Hey, I don't care about him, what you do when you're not with me is your business."
Never dated a stripper.... but I had a room mate when I was in the Army that had strippers in and out of the apartment all the time. Never looked like anything serious, as long as you're just having fun I see nothing wrong with this.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
As soon as I read about you putting the stuffed animal on the young girl's car, I was thinking that probably was the end of you and her....looks like I was right. Don't EVER do that again. It's creepy, stalker-ish, and extremely beta.
The last 25 y/o I dated is a former stripper. It's like they never get it out of their head that men exist on this planet to buy them stuff and do things for them.
The last 25 y/o I dated is a former stripper. It's like they never get it out of their head that men exist on this planet to buy them stuff and do things for them.