HeadLightsOn
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Yea but look to his drummer Kenny Aronoff for the REAL rhythm - that guy can drum!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
advice on boyfriend objection from much younger girl.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jcjetty
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QUOTE="HeadLightsOn, post: 2295478, member: 112526"]I'm not sure I agree with this. Women have specific reasons for mentioning the 'boyfriend' and it's not always to put you off, eg it can be ASD.[/QUOTE]nIt familiar with ASD what is that?
jcjetty
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Gentlemen. I've traded the 21 year old cashier in for a 39 year old dancer! Man she is smoking hot! One of the first things I told her is your really lucky I usually don't give women my age a second look! On really and how young are the girls you usually date? I told her no I don't look my age, my sons friend mom thought I was 32!, I don't like dating girls that look older than me! Set the hook! The next morning she texts me and says I like you yada yada I replied I wish I had more time to get to know you! Her reply was you make time for what's important. I told her whoa look at the ego assuming your important enougg for me to spend time with you... Reeling that baby in! Any advice on dating a stripper? Lay it on me guys!
jcjetty
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wtf? She is smoking hot. She looks like she is in her mid twenties
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She's not supposed to be still trying to be in there at that age. The stripper lifestyle is full of corrosive attitudes, but bigneil will argue it's the same rulesets that "hot girls" run by.
Glumix
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My preference go for this version : "I will call you when you are single.".
You have two plates in the making.
Make the stripper do everything for you. Don't make the mistake of treating her like a normal girl. It's basically play her then lay her. Don't attempt any form of relationship beyond f.ucking her. It's basically get her excited then lay. Don't keep her around too long.
With the younger chick you might have to 'push- pull' to get a result. Giving her too much attention might just build her ego up to the point of keeping you in a loop of frustration . Finding the stripper and working on her will let you cool of a little on the younger one and leave her wondering.
Make the stripper do everything for you. Don't make the mistake of treating her like a normal girl. It's basically play her then lay her. Don't attempt any form of relationship beyond f.ucking her. It's basically get her excited then lay. Don't keep her around too long.
With the younger chick you might have to 'push- pull' to get a result. Giving her too much attention might just build her ego up to the point of keeping you in a loop of frustration . Finding the stripper and working on her will let you cool of a little on the younger one and leave her wondering.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
MOST dancers are the best of women {sexy} and the worst {even crazier}. She probably won't have any money.... spent it gambling or some stupid **** {they make 40-60k a year or MORE if really good in an upscale}> SHE hasn't planned for the day she can't dance, she's expecting to find a guy she can mooch off. AND, no matter what they say, only about 1 in 20 actually is working their way through College
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This guy is right. Professional moochers who have bodies that get a lot of attention. The faces aren't even usually all that, they know their angles and makeup.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I've been dating women in their 20s for about a year now, after a self imposed exile. They ALL claim to have some kind of BF... It's strange, maybe it's a generational thing I don't know, but I think they do this because they KNOW there really isn't any kind of future with an older guy and they say this sort of thing to let you know that if ANYTHING happens it's your fault, and it will NOT be permanent.
I always just ignore this and keep trying to make dates. When you see her and she gives you high IOI, or if she reaches out to you try to make a date. If she won't go out with you, then just move on. One of two things will happen, she'll drift away, or she'll come after you hard. If you know she wants you and mentioned her BF then just say, "Hey, I don't care about him, what you do when you're not with me is your business."
Never dated a stripper.... but I had a room mate when I was in the Army that had strippers in and out of the apartment all the time. Never looked like anything serious, as long as you're just having fun I see nothing wrong with this.
I always just ignore this and keep trying to make dates. When you see her and she gives you high IOI, or if she reaches out to you try to make a date. If she won't go out with you, then just move on. One of two things will happen, she'll drift away, or she'll come after you hard. If you know she wants you and mentioned her BF then just say, "Hey, I don't care about him, what you do when you're not with me is your business."
Never dated a stripper.... but I had a room mate when I was in the Army that had strippers in and out of the apartment all the time. Never looked like anything serious, as long as you're just having fun I see nothing wrong with this.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
As soon as I read about you putting the stuffed animal on the young girl's car, I was thinking that probably was the end of you and her....looks like I was right. Don't EVER do that again. It's creepy, stalker-ish, and extremely beta.
The last 25 y/o I dated is a former stripper. It's like they never get it out of their head that men exist on this planet to buy them stuff and do things for them.
The last 25 y/o I dated is a former stripper. It's like they never get it out of their head that men exist on this planet to buy them stuff and do things for them.