"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Powersurgeon

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Maybe you've read my posts before. I'm a new red pill aware, like many of us it was because of my divorce. I understand that we (red piller's) are not as much as it should, but there is this shyt that is bothering me a lot, maybe it should't , but is beyond my will. It's been almost 2 years since my divorce, my ex is by no means an HB, big nose, wrinkles, boob job, tummy tuck, that looks good with clothes on but naked are big red scars in the middle of the breasts and the underboob and belly and the striae from the pregnancy. Anyway, less than a year since I left, she "finds" this new guy via twitter that she describes as perfect, not exactly with that word but with her description of him: he's 6 y older, she's 37, with two teen kids, not rich but with money, a job that let's him travel a lot and with a lot of spare time to himself, extremely commited to my ex, even knowing that she's a cheater. Obviously this description doesn't fit with the stupidities that he writes on twitter. Anyway now, suddenly, she has moved closer to my old house in order to be eith her more time, he buys her things, he's with my children, etc.
My question is: do this looks suspicious to you, I mean, do you red piller's would have a LTR with this woman with a lot of red flags, with 3 little children, would you "invest" your time and money in such a problematic relationship? I don't know if this guy is just a blue piller who believes that "everybody can make a mistake and deserves a second chance" or if he is something to be aware of.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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Why do you care? I would shake the hand of the man that. Marrys my ex wife and tell him better you than me. You seem to be obsessing. Knock it off!
 

sodbuster

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I'll introduce you to my ex, she's single as far as I know..... She's dead to you, except for the kids, you need to reach my frame of mind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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