"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Powersurgeon

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Maybe you've read my posts before. I'm a new red pill aware, like many of us it was because of my divorce. I understand that we (red piller's) are not as much as it should, but there is this shyt that is bothering me a lot, maybe it should't , but is beyond my will. It's been almost 2 years since my divorce, my ex is by no means an HB, big nose, wrinkles, boob job, tummy tuck, that looks good with clothes on but naked are big red scars in the middle of the breasts and the underboob and belly and the striae from the pregnancy. Anyway, less than a year since I left, she "finds" this new guy via twitter that she describes as perfect, not exactly with that word but with her description of him: he's 6 y older, she's 37, with two teen kids, not rich but with money, a job that let's him travel a lot and with a lot of spare time to himself, extremely commited to my ex, even knowing that she's a cheater. Obviously this description doesn't fit with the stupidities that he writes on twitter. Anyway now, suddenly, she has moved closer to my old house in order to be eith her more time, he buys her things, he's with my children, etc.
My question is: do this looks suspicious to you, I mean, do you red piller's would have a LTR with this woman with a lot of red flags, with 3 little children, would you "invest" your time and money in such a problematic relationship? I don't know if this guy is just a blue piller who believes that "everybody can make a mistake and deserves a second chance" or if he is something to be aware of.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dustmuffin

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Why do you care? I would shake the hand of the man that. Marrys my ex wife and tell him better you than me. You seem to be obsessing. Knock it off!
 

sodbuster

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I'll introduce you to my ex, she's single as far as I know..... She's dead to you, except for the kids, you need to reach my frame of mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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