"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Powersurgeon

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Maybe you've read my posts before. I'm a new red pill aware, like many of us it was because of my divorce. I understand that we (red piller's) are not as much as it should, but there is this shyt that is bothering me a lot, maybe it should't , but is beyond my will. It's been almost 2 years since my divorce, my ex is by no means an HB, big nose, wrinkles, boob job, tummy tuck, that looks good with clothes on but naked are big red scars in the middle of the breasts and the underboob and belly and the striae from the pregnancy. Anyway, less than a year since I left, she "finds" this new guy via twitter that she describes as perfect, not exactly with that word but with her description of him: he's 6 y older, she's 37, with two teen kids, not rich but with money, a job that let's him travel a lot and with a lot of spare time to himself, extremely commited to my ex, even knowing that she's a cheater. Obviously this description doesn't fit with the stupidities that he writes on twitter. Anyway now, suddenly, she has moved closer to my old house in order to be eith her more time, he buys her things, he's with my children, etc.
My question is: do this looks suspicious to you, I mean, do you red piller's would have a LTR with this woman with a lot of red flags, with 3 little children, would you "invest" your time and money in such a problematic relationship? I don't know if this guy is just a blue piller who believes that "everybody can make a mistake and deserves a second chance" or if he is something to be aware of.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dustmuffin

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Why do you care? I would shake the hand of the man that. Marrys my ex wife and tell him better you than me. You seem to be obsessing. Knock it off!
 

sodbuster

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I'll introduce you to my ex, she's single as far as I know..... She's dead to you, except for the kids, you need to reach my frame of mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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