"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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advice needed on NSA affair

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Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jimmyjohn said:
Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.

You are married and you are banging another woman. You come here with your non-existant dignity and integrity and seek advice from fellow DJs to justify your pathetic acts?

Then you surrendered at the WRONG time to the WRONG woman ( wrong marriage decision) because you are still seeking sex and even relationships outside your marriage.

I don't know how old you are, and I don't care about being disrespectful to you because respect is given to those who deserve it.

I hope nobody gives you the *advice* you are seeking here, whatever that is, while your wife is home, waiting.
 
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Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.
This is not good, is it? Every time a girl has "thanked" me for making her orgasm, she has been using me for sex and ends up leaving.
 

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The whole point to a no strings attached relationship is sex MNIN.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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