"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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advice needed on NSA affair

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Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jimmyjohn said:
Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.

You are married and you are banging another woman. You come here with your non-existant dignity and integrity and seek advice from fellow DJs to justify your pathetic acts?

Then you surrendered at the WRONG time to the WRONG woman ( wrong marriage decision) because you are still seeking sex and even relationships outside your marriage.

I don't know how old you are, and I don't care about being disrespectful to you because respect is given to those who deserve it.

I hope nobody gives you the *advice* you are seeking here, whatever that is, while your wife is home, waiting.
 
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Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.
This is not good, is it? Every time a girl has "thanked" me for making her orgasm, she has been using me for sex and ends up leaving.
 

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The whole point to a no strings attached relationship is sex MNIN.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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