"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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advice needed on NSA affair

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Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jimmyjohn said:
Hi all,

I am in need of some help here. I am married, and I meet this wonderful girl online. That is a problem in itself, but anyway. This girlie and I have become f**k buddies seeing each other once or twice a week. This has been going on now for a little over a month.

She keeps making comments on how great the sex is and how we have so much chemistry. I agree with her completely. It is very close to a religious experience. We just completely click.

Things are supposed to be NSA, but I find myself having feelings for her. I am pretty sure she is into me as well; the sex could not be this good otherwise. Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.

Do I risk telling her how I feel in order to move the relationship further, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy the ride. I realize this is probably just infatuation, but I really do not want it to fade away due to my lack of opening up to her.

By the way, she is recently divorced.

Thanks for any and all advice.

You are married and you are banging another woman. You come here with your non-existant dignity and integrity and seek advice from fellow DJs to justify your pathetic acts?

Then you surrendered at the WRONG time to the WRONG woman ( wrong marriage decision) because you are still seeking sex and even relationships outside your marriage.

I don't know how old you are, and I don't care about being disrespectful to you because respect is given to those who deserve it.

I hope nobody gives you the *advice* you are seeking here, whatever that is, while your wife is home, waiting.
 
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jimmyjohn said:
Plus she compliments my looks and has actually thanked me for her orgasm.
This is not good, is it? Every time a girl has "thanked" me for making her orgasm, she has been using me for sex and ends up leaving.
 

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The whole point to a no strings attached relationship is sex MNIN.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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