"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tennisbuck12

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Morning,

I took this lady out on Monday and the date ended with a kiss and thats it.

I texted her last night to see if she wants to do something the next day or that night but she said she had plans. Asked her maybe some other time and she responded Sounds good:)

Nothing has been setup but I have noticed texts have become shorter and its taking her longer to respond.

Should I stop communication or wait? Any help right now I would be helpful. She's a dime piece.

She did mention she didn't feel well yesterday, should i text her and see how she feels?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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piranha45

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NO, don't get emotional with her. Be as an indifferent rock, that has other options and no particular preference toward her. She's probably quite used to men yielding and supplicating to her on account of her physical attractiveness, and if you jump on that bandwagon you'll make yourself out to be boring and weak... just like all the others.

You should stop communication and be patient and methodical. Your mindset needs to be that she's just one of many prospects you have.

And if you lose her anyway, then that's something you need to accept. By withdrawing your attention from her, you're doing all you can to gain her interest.
 
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Thanks. Thats what I was thinking. I'm 34 and shes 40.

I can always go younger
 
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Thanks. Thats what I was thinking. I'm 34 and shes 40.

I can always go younger
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol. Have lots of options but I have a thing for older women. Always have.

She is a pro at dating. One thing that did turn me off
 
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