Advice/Help Second Date

[tennisbuck12]

Morning,

I took this lady out on Monday and the date ended with a kiss and thats it.

I texted her last night to see if she wants to do something the next day or that night but she said she had plans. Asked her maybe some other time and she responded Sounds good

Nothing has been setup but I have noticed texts have become shorter and its taking her longer to respond.

Should I stop communication or wait? Any help right now I would be helpful. She's a dime piece.

She did mention she didn't feel well yesterday, should i text her and see how she feels?

 

[piranha45]

NO, don't get emotional with her. Be as an indifferent rock, that has other options and no particular preference toward her. She's probably quite used to men yielding and supplicating to her on account of her physical attractiveness, and if you jump on that bandwagon you'll make yourself out to be boring and weak... just like all the others.

You should stop communication and be patient and methodical. Your mindset needs to be that she's just one of many prospects you have.

And if you lose her anyway, then that's something you need to accept. By withdrawing your attention from her, you're doing all you can to gain her interest.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Thanks. Thats what I was thinking. I'm 34 and shes 40.

I can always go younger

 

[tennisbuck12]

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Thanks. Thats what I was thinking. I'm 34 and shes 40.

I can always go younger

 

[GotED?]

Dude, she's a cougar - and got you out-gamed and out-played.

I recommend you go the opposite direction - unless you have no other options and only get attention on expired women.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Lol. Have lots of options but I have a thing for older women. Always have.

She is a pro at dating. One thing that did turn me off