"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a keyboard jockey for the moment. But I learn from my experiences and share them here, and ask questions. I don't pretend to be something I'm not.

I'm an attractive dude who chicks are crazy about, but with a fear of approaching, for the time being. I've put this stuff to work first hand and have watched chicks freak out over me and chase me and all that good stuff. Just have to take it further.

Why did I just try to validate myself?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think its because you are starting to believe in yourself little by little reset.

Remember your old sig internal validation good need for external validation bad lol.

Good work.

Oop I just validated ya externally lmao.
 

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Lol, wow you remembered my old sig. That's cool.

I think it's what you're saying. This place is rubbing off on me.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Bedding women is highly overrated in our society IMO. Life is a lot bigger than that single dimension.
that s pretty ambiguous... so are you saying sex is overrated or sex with women is overrated? I agree with your second statement, there s a lot of bigger and better things in life than chasing poonani, but pvssy is still an essential aspect of life. Unless you do some crazy drugs and you have other means of "pleasuring" your mind, sex is great.

as for a lot of virgins/afcs giving advice here, ya it sucks but if you ve been around for a few weeks you start to know who s who

btw, some of the worst advice on this site comes from Don Juan 11, who, among other things, admits he chases women and spends money on them for 7-8 months and still doesn't get any... yet he gives advice to everybody. keep up the good work!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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