"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a keyboard jockey for the moment. But I learn from my experiences and share them here, and ask questions. I don't pretend to be something I'm not.

I'm an attractive dude who chicks are crazy about, but with a fear of approaching, for the time being. I've put this stuff to work first hand and have watched chicks freak out over me and chase me and all that good stuff. Just have to take it further.

Why did I just try to validate myself?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think its because you are starting to believe in yourself little by little reset.

Remember your old sig internal validation good need for external validation bad lol.

Good work.

Oop I just validated ya externally lmao.
 

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Lol, wow you remembered my old sig. That's cool.

I think it's what you're saying. This place is rubbing off on me.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Bedding women is highly overrated in our society IMO. Life is a lot bigger than that single dimension.
that s pretty ambiguous... so are you saying sex is overrated or sex with women is overrated? I agree with your second statement, there s a lot of bigger and better things in life than chasing poonani, but pvssy is still an essential aspect of life. Unless you do some crazy drugs and you have other means of "pleasuring" your mind, sex is great.

as for a lot of virgins/afcs giving advice here, ya it sucks but if you ve been around for a few weeks you start to know who s who

btw, some of the worst advice on this site comes from Don Juan 11, who, among other things, admits he chases women and spends money on them for 7-8 months and still doesn't get any... yet he gives advice to everybody. keep up the good work!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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