"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm a keyboard jockey for the moment. But I learn from my experiences and share them here, and ask questions. I don't pretend to be something I'm not.

I'm an attractive dude who chicks are crazy about, but with a fear of approaching, for the time being. I've put this stuff to work first hand and have watched chicks freak out over me and chase me and all that good stuff. Just have to take it further.

Why did I just try to validate myself?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think its because you are starting to believe in yourself little by little reset.

Remember your old sig internal validation good need for external validation bad lol.

Good work.

Oop I just validated ya externally lmao.
 

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Lol, wow you remembered my old sig. That's cool.

I think it's what you're saying. This place is rubbing off on me.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Bedding women is highly overrated in our society IMO. Life is a lot bigger than that single dimension.
that s pretty ambiguous... so are you saying sex is overrated or sex with women is overrated? I agree with your second statement, there s a lot of bigger and better things in life than chasing poonani, but pvssy is still an essential aspect of life. Unless you do some crazy drugs and you have other means of "pleasuring" your mind, sex is great.

as for a lot of virgins/afcs giving advice here, ya it sucks but if you ve been around for a few weeks you start to know who s who

btw, some of the worst advice on this site comes from Don Juan 11, who, among other things, admits he chases women and spends money on them for 7-8 months and still doesn't get any... yet he gives advice to everybody. keep up the good work!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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