"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice for hooking up with an old high school friend?

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Hi, I'm new to these forums so before I get into my main query, let me tell you all a little bit about myself...

I'm a 22 year old virgin with minimal dating experience and I live with my family (parents, sis, nephew) in Brooklyn. I have my own two bedrooms across the hall from our main apartment. Money's tight and I don't start my new job for another week or two. I'm getting over my low self esteem (brought on throughout the years by an overbearing older sister) and have been reading up on all this donjuanery at this site, seducer's diary & chickmagnet101 for the past 2 or 3 months. As far as applying the knowledge goes, that's coming along at a snail's pace but I'm further along then I was say last year.

I'm tall and pretty handsome; an 8 at least most of my female friends tell me, but as I've learned that counts for nothing without a high level of confidence which I'm still struggling to build. Though I am talented at illustration and massaging.

Anyway, onto my query. I've recently come back into contact with a very beautiful friend of mines from High School through mysPace. Back in the day, a mutual friend of ours told me she was into me but I was too much of a wuss to step up. Anyway, she recently messaged me saying we need to catch up cuz it's been a while. I replied with "You're right. We DO need to hang; it's been too long. What's your phone #?" and a couple of days ago, she sent me her digits.


Now I realize PUAs look down on the "One sPecial Girl" attitude and let me just say this isn't that. I'd be content with just being another guy friend to her if nothing of a more physical or romantic nature panned out. But I'm already a guy friend to enough babes and frankly I'd like to turn my luck around with this one.

So now that you know about me and my situation, I'd appreciate whatever wisdom you can sPare. Thank you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I hate to bump up a thread nobody replied to, esPecially considering my n00b status but I could really use someone's advice. Thanks again...
 

Serialized3

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Why are you randomly capitalizing your P's?

Anyways, read the bible if you haven't already. There's a link at the bottom of every page.

Basically you know she's interested in you because she messaged you first. You have the digits, so call her up and suggest that you two get together for drinks or something. Progress from there.
 

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Oh, it's not random. I have this quirk where I capitalize all "P"s following "S"s. I've done it for so long, I've forgotten why.

Gracias!
 

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Well, it's retared to caPitalize p's when they are not suppossed to be. Quit that shiit.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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And it's neither here nor there to rag on a minor habit of a dude's that has nothing to do with the problem he came seeking wisdom for. That would be like me pointing out how you missPelled (whoops! did it again) "retarded" and "supposed".

I'm here for Casanovication, not written sPeech therapy my friend. ;)
 
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