"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Advice for hooking up with an old high school friend?

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Hi, I'm new to these forums so before I get into my main query, let me tell you all a little bit about myself...

I'm a 22 year old virgin with minimal dating experience and I live with my family (parents, sis, nephew) in Brooklyn. I have my own two bedrooms across the hall from our main apartment. Money's tight and I don't start my new job for another week or two. I'm getting over my low self esteem (brought on throughout the years by an overbearing older sister) and have been reading up on all this donjuanery at this site, seducer's diary & chickmagnet101 for the past 2 or 3 months. As far as applying the knowledge goes, that's coming along at a snail's pace but I'm further along then I was say last year.

I'm tall and pretty handsome; an 8 at least most of my female friends tell me, but as I've learned that counts for nothing without a high level of confidence which I'm still struggling to build. Though I am talented at illustration and massaging.

Anyway, onto my query. I've recently come back into contact with a very beautiful friend of mines from High School through mysPace. Back in the day, a mutual friend of ours told me she was into me but I was too much of a wuss to step up. Anyway, she recently messaged me saying we need to catch up cuz it's been a while. I replied with "You're right. We DO need to hang; it's been too long. What's your phone #?" and a couple of days ago, she sent me her digits.


Now I realize PUAs look down on the "One sPecial Girl" attitude and let me just say this isn't that. I'd be content with just being another guy friend to her if nothing of a more physical or romantic nature panned out. But I'm already a guy friend to enough babes and frankly I'd like to turn my luck around with this one.

So now that you know about me and my situation, I'd appreciate whatever wisdom you can sPare. Thank you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate to bump up a thread nobody replied to, esPecially considering my n00b status but I could really use someone's advice. Thanks again...
 

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Why are you randomly capitalizing your P's?

Anyways, read the bible if you haven't already. There's a link at the bottom of every page.

Basically you know she's interested in you because she messaged you first. You have the digits, so call her up and suggest that you two get together for drinks or something. Progress from there.
 

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Oh, it's not random. I have this quirk where I capitalize all "P"s following "S"s. I've done it for so long, I've forgotten why.

Gracias!
 

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Well, it's retared to caPitalize p's when they are not suppossed to be. Quit that shiit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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And it's neither here nor there to rag on a minor habit of a dude's that has nothing to do with the problem he came seeking wisdom for. That would be like me pointing out how you missPelled (whoops! did it again) "retarded" and "supposed".

I'm here for Casanovication, not written sPeech therapy my friend. ;)
 
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