"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Advice for cold "message"...on the internet?

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Anybody here ever wanted to message a stranger who's website you just stumbled across?

My situation. Yeah I'm bored and I usually check out MySpace.com and I see a lot of women who live around my area.

I am just wondering, how should I message a girl who I am interested in that is single who lives in the same town as me? I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.

One specific one I encountered is literally ASKING for a guy in her "About me" section: "About me:
Hello!! My name is Justine a.k.a. teenybuti. I'm very easily amussed so you dont have to try hard to impress me. Im currently single and trying every hard to find that special someone."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"


See how she respond, and take it from there... :)
 
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whatever method for you. i know a guy that uses myspace to pick up on chicks and he does get dates and only 1 or 2.. maybe even some sex. i'm not into that sh1t, but it works for some.
 
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that's a bit AFC.. a lot of guys probably have messaged that girl with a "what's up" or something. be different maybe that will attract her more to you then just a 'whats up'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
 
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Originally posted by unistork
I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.
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Originally posted by ego
"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"
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Originally posted by unistork
Okay. I'll see how it goes.
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Ummm... am I the only one who's left wondering WTF?!!? Wow, how different indeed... next time let's try not contradicting ourselves in the very next post... Why don't you just send her a note saying whatever the hell you want to say and not worry about if and when she's going to write back.
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
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Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet?
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Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
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Apparently he does care about the reactions of random strangers over the internet. That being said, cut out the name-calling. Further continuation by both parties will result in the thread being locked. Thanks much.
 
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