"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice for cold "message"...on the internet?

unistork

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Anybody here ever wanted to message a stranger who's website you just stumbled across?

My situation. Yeah I'm bored and I usually check out MySpace.com and I see a lot of women who live around my area.

I am just wondering, how should I message a girl who I am interested in that is single who lives in the same town as me? I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.

One specific one I encountered is literally ASKING for a guy in her "About me" section: "About me:
Hello!! My name is Justine a.k.a. teenybuti. I'm very easily amussed so you dont have to try hard to impress me. Im currently single and trying every hard to find that special someone."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ego

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"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"


See how she respond, and take it from there... :)
 

DeathDealer

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whatever method for you. i know a guy that uses myspace to pick up on chicks and he does get dates and only 1 or 2.. maybe even some sex. i'm not into that sh1t, but it works for some.
 

tapout632

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that's a bit AFC.. a lot of guys probably have messaged that girl with a "what's up" or something. be different maybe that will attract her more to you then just a 'whats up'
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Microphone Fiend

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this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
 

diablo

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Originally posted by unistork
I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.
Originally posted by ego
"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"
Originally posted by unistork
Okay. I'll see how it goes.
Ummm... am I the only one who's left wondering WTF?!!? Wow, how different indeed... next time let's try not contradicting ourselves in the very next post... Why don't you just send her a note saying whatever the hell you want to say and not worry about if and when she's going to write back.
 

unistork

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
 

diablo

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet?
Originally posted by unistork
Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
Apparently he does care about the reactions of random strangers over the internet. That being said, cut out the name-calling. Further continuation by both parties will result in the thread being locked. Thanks much.
 
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