"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice for cold "message"...on the internet?

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Anybody here ever wanted to message a stranger who's website you just stumbled across?

My situation. Yeah I'm bored and I usually check out MySpace.com and I see a lot of women who live around my area.

I am just wondering, how should I message a girl who I am interested in that is single who lives in the same town as me? I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.

One specific one I encountered is literally ASKING for a guy in her "About me" section: "About me:
Hello!! My name is Justine a.k.a. teenybuti. I'm very easily amussed so you dont have to try hard to impress me. Im currently single and trying every hard to find that special someone."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"


See how she respond, and take it from there... :)
 
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whatever method for you. i know a guy that uses myspace to pick up on chicks and he does get dates and only 1 or 2.. maybe even some sex. i'm not into that sh1t, but it works for some.
 
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that's a bit AFC.. a lot of guys probably have messaged that girl with a "what's up" or something. be different maybe that will attract her more to you then just a 'whats up'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
 
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Originally posted by unistork
I know that some other guys who see the website message her with **** like "You're hot!!! Hey sexy.." and all that AFC crap, so I need to be different.
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Originally posted by ego
"Hey sweetheart! wudup?"
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Originally posted by unistork
Okay. I'll see how it goes.
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Ummm... am I the only one who's left wondering WTF?!!? Wow, how different indeed... next time let's try not contradicting ourselves in the very next post... Why don't you just send her a note saying whatever the hell you want to say and not worry about if and when she's going to write back.
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet? WTF find out yourself you damn insecure waste of time
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Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
this is dumb...you are afraid of the reaction of a random stranger over the internet?
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Wow, if you don't have anything to say...don't say it you lowlife queer little d!ckhead.
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Apparently he does care about the reactions of random strangers over the internet. That being said, cut out the name-calling. Further continuation by both parties will result in the thread being locked. Thanks much.
 
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