"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Advice for a girls you nearly scored with?

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So last week(labor day monday) a couple of friends and I went to visit a college to just party with some old friends. Well there was a smokin chick there (around HB8.5?) who I gamed the whole night. Well, we were nearly ready to bang (both of us pretty drunk, in her room, door closed, making out, and her saying "thats ok" to my "I don't have a condom) when I was ****blocked by a friend of mine who needed me outside. Anyhow, i didnt get a chance to go back in as she soon passed out and I crashed a little while after too(all within 10-15 minutes). In the morning, when i left it wasnt awkward when we both woke up.

Anyhow my question is, I'm going back to the school this weekend and I want to know if I should try to game on this chick again. I was told i wouldnt be able to because she has a "boy toy". But i figure that since I nearly closed it just 3 days ago, this boy toy musta just suddenly popped up? Either that or maybe he doesnt exist and someone just doesnt want me gamin her. I dont want to appear desperate or antyhing (because I'm not). I just kinda feel like it might be kinda weird to see her again so soon after what happened. I mean she might think i just came back to get with her(which isnt true...thats just a bonus).


Sorry, i know this post is really long. Advice anyone? Feel free to ask questions if I dont make sense, I mighta missed something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Try it out with the girl, if you don't try, you will never know what happened. However, I would not be surprised if she does not remember what happened, or she tries to act like it didn't happen. Just be careful that you are well aware of the responses you can get from her.

Don't act too interested as well, VERY important. Just be very casual the next time you see her, and you will be fine.
 
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He who hesitates masturbates.

Oh well try what Axcell said.

Its the only way you'll know if the window of opportunity has been closed or not.
 
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thanks guys, she did try to play it off as if she didint remember what happened but after she got drunk it was pretty evident she did. Anyways, i unfortunately wasnt able to nail it with her. Though I did hit first base again with some other less hot girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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