"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Advice for a girls you nearly scored with?

venser

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So last week(labor day monday) a couple of friends and I went to visit a college to just party with some old friends. Well there was a smokin chick there (around HB8.5?) who I gamed the whole night. Well, we were nearly ready to bang (both of us pretty drunk, in her room, door closed, making out, and her saying "thats ok" to my "I don't have a condom) when I was ****blocked by a friend of mine who needed me outside. Anyhow, i didnt get a chance to go back in as she soon passed out and I crashed a little while after too(all within 10-15 minutes). In the morning, when i left it wasnt awkward when we both woke up.

Anyhow my question is, I'm going back to the school this weekend and I want to know if I should try to game on this chick again. I was told i wouldnt be able to because she has a "boy toy". But i figure that since I nearly closed it just 3 days ago, this boy toy musta just suddenly popped up? Either that or maybe he doesnt exist and someone just doesnt want me gamin her. I dont want to appear desperate or antyhing (because I'm not). I just kinda feel like it might be kinda weird to see her again so soon after what happened. I mean she might think i just came back to get with her(which isnt true...thats just a bonus).


Sorry, i know this post is really long. Advice anyone? Feel free to ask questions if I dont make sense, I mighta missed something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Axcell

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Try it out with the girl, if you don't try, you will never know what happened. However, I would not be surprised if she does not remember what happened, or she tries to act like it didn't happen. Just be careful that you are well aware of the responses you can get from her.

Don't act too interested as well, VERY important. Just be very casual the next time you see her, and you will be fine.
 

KontrollerX

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He who hesitates masturbates.

Oh well try what Axcell said.

Its the only way you'll know if the window of opportunity has been closed or not.
 

venser

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thanks guys, she did try to play it off as if she didint remember what happened but after she got drunk it was pretty evident she did. Anyways, i unfortunately wasnt able to nail it with her. Though I did hit first base again with some other less hot girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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