"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Advice for a girls you nearly scored with?

venser

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So last week(labor day monday) a couple of friends and I went to visit a college to just party with some old friends. Well there was a smokin chick there (around HB8.5?) who I gamed the whole night. Well, we were nearly ready to bang (both of us pretty drunk, in her room, door closed, making out, and her saying "thats ok" to my "I don't have a condom) when I was ****blocked by a friend of mine who needed me outside. Anyhow, i didnt get a chance to go back in as she soon passed out and I crashed a little while after too(all within 10-15 minutes). In the morning, when i left it wasnt awkward when we both woke up.

Anyhow my question is, I'm going back to the school this weekend and I want to know if I should try to game on this chick again. I was told i wouldnt be able to because she has a "boy toy". But i figure that since I nearly closed it just 3 days ago, this boy toy musta just suddenly popped up? Either that or maybe he doesnt exist and someone just doesnt want me gamin her. I dont want to appear desperate or antyhing (because I'm not). I just kinda feel like it might be kinda weird to see her again so soon after what happened. I mean she might think i just came back to get with her(which isnt true...thats just a bonus).


Sorry, i know this post is really long. Advice anyone? Feel free to ask questions if I dont make sense, I mighta missed something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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Try it out with the girl, if you don't try, you will never know what happened. However, I would not be surprised if she does not remember what happened, or she tries to act like it didn't happen. Just be careful that you are well aware of the responses you can get from her.

Don't act too interested as well, VERY important. Just be very casual the next time you see her, and you will be fine.
 

KontrollerX

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He who hesitates masturbates.

Oh well try what Axcell said.

Its the only way you'll know if the window of opportunity has been closed or not.
 

venser

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thanks guys, she did try to play it off as if she didint remember what happened but after she got drunk it was pretty evident she did. Anyways, i unfortunately wasnt able to nail it with her. Though I did hit first base again with some other less hot girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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