"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
advice:Direct game 4 fat boys?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Master Don Juan
First off all define how fat your are and if you don't like what you see in the mirror then you need to improove yourself before you try to pick up the chicks. Reason for this is that well any line you throw out will be let down by your brain giving you negative feedback on what your brain thinks the girl sees in you.
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Get those issues worked out first because they're the easiest to deal with. The benefit is when you look like a million bucks you'll feel awesome about yourself, and that will significantly improve how you're received by others.
but when i sit in my sister bed i see that i have a whamp..
indirect i won´t approach cause the whole attraction technique thing makes me lse and confuses me.
i want make it this way
-open
-rapport
-instantdate
-rapport
-escalation
To directly anwser your question, of course you can sarge while your fat. As for your expecting rejection because of your weight, some will, some won't, most are polite enough not to say "ewwww fatty!" and the ones that aren't you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Look for the ones giving you choosing signals, eye contact and IOIs.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i don´t like hearing "work on your innergame" cause many people fall in the "as long i need to work on my innergame, i can´t go out and approach succsessfully" trap.
When it comes to inner game i would say hypnotica-collection of confidence, Demonic or super confidence.
Some products where you need to go out..
what do you think?
If you have social anxiety, you get pumped on doing affirmations for relaxation and openess and confidence. But then you actually have to go out and talk to people, go somewhere new and interact with people. If you have problems talking to girls, you have to meditate on what you want, find your inner confidence and then go out and prove it to yourself by striking up random conversations with girls. You can't have the yin without the yang.
You have to match the inner and outer to get a result. You just can't sit around the house thinking "I'm the man!"
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Don Juan
there is no excuse unless you have certain physical problem..
(The thing is people like me need to have a plan, or better a structure. and the structure should have things they can do. or they familiar with. or at least they understand it without question..)
Do you think i´m on the right way with innergame by the "Collection of confidence" by hypnotica? i think at the moment that you think on something different