"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
advice:Direct game 4 fat boys?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Master Don Juan
First off all define how fat your are and if you don't like what you see in the mirror then you need to improove yourself before you try to pick up the chicks. Reason for this is that well any line you throw out will be let down by your brain giving you negative feedback on what your brain thinks the girl sees in you.
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Get those issues worked out first because they're the easiest to deal with. The benefit is when you look like a million bucks you'll feel awesome about yourself, and that will significantly improve how you're received by others.
but when i sit in my sister bed i see that i have a whamp..
indirect i won´t approach cause the whole attraction technique thing makes me lse and confuses me.
i want make it this way
-open
-rapport
-instantdate
-rapport
-escalation
To directly anwser your question, of course you can sarge while your fat. As for your expecting rejection because of your weight, some will, some won't, most are polite enough not to say "ewwww fatty!" and the ones that aren't you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Look for the ones giving you choosing signals, eye contact and IOIs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i don´t like hearing "work on your innergame" cause many people fall in the "as long i need to work on my innergame, i can´t go out and approach succsessfully" trap.
When it comes to inner game i would say hypnotica-collection of confidence, Demonic or super confidence.
Some products where you need to go out..
what do you think?
If you have social anxiety, you get pumped on doing affirmations for relaxation and openess and confidence. But then you actually have to go out and talk to people, go somewhere new and interact with people. If you have problems talking to girls, you have to meditate on what you want, find your inner confidence and then go out and prove it to yourself by striking up random conversations with girls. You can't have the yin without the yang.
You have to match the inner and outer to get a result. You just can't sit around the house thinking "I'm the man!"
true romance
Don Juan
there is no excuse unless you have certain physical problem..
(The thing is people like me need to have a plan, or better a structure. and the structure should have things they can do. or they familiar with. or at least they understand it without question..)
Do you think i´m on the right way with innergame by the "Collection of confidence" by hypnotica? i think at the moment that you think on something different