"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
advice:Direct game 4 fat boys?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Master Don Juan
First off all define how fat your are and if you don't like what you see in the mirror then you need to improove yourself before you try to pick up the chicks. Reason for this is that well any line you throw out will be let down by your brain giving you negative feedback on what your brain thinks the girl sees in you.
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Get those issues worked out first because they're the easiest to deal with. The benefit is when you look like a million bucks you'll feel awesome about yourself, and that will significantly improve how you're received by others.
but when i sit in my sister bed i see that i have a whamp..
indirect i won´t approach cause the whole attraction technique thing makes me lse and confuses me.
i want make it this way
-open
-rapport
-instantdate
-rapport
-escalation
To directly anwser your question, of course you can sarge while your fat. As for your expecting rejection because of your weight, some will, some won't, most are polite enough not to say "ewwww fatty!" and the ones that aren't you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Look for the ones giving you choosing signals, eye contact and IOIs.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i don´t like hearing "work on your innergame" cause many people fall in the "as long i need to work on my innergame, i can´t go out and approach succsessfully" trap.
When it comes to inner game i would say hypnotica-collection of confidence, Demonic or super confidence.
Some products where you need to go out..
what do you think?
If you have social anxiety, you get pumped on doing affirmations for relaxation and openess and confidence. But then you actually have to go out and talk to people, go somewhere new and interact with people. If you have problems talking to girls, you have to meditate on what you want, find your inner confidence and then go out and prove it to yourself by striking up random conversations with girls. You can't have the yin without the yang.
You have to match the inner and outer to get a result. You just can't sit around the house thinking "I'm the man!"
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Don Juan
there is no excuse unless you have certain physical problem..
(The thing is people like me need to have a plan, or better a structure. and the structure should have things they can do. or they familiar with. or at least they understand it without question..)
Do you think i´m on the right way with innergame by the "Collection of confidence" by hypnotica? i think at the moment that you think on something different