She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
my opinion: This woman is NOT wife material.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You have a divorced, abortion, dating a long distance criminal, cheating on criminal with local safe guy -- woman, trying to make a logical decision using her feelings, instead of logical thought , asking the advice of an illogical woman, using feelings instead of rational thought, trying to give her advice on her mess of a situation.Got a real winner here:
Help! I Can’t Decide Which of the Guys I’m Dating Is a Better “Investment.”
Prudie’s column for Sept. 5.slate.com
my opinion: This woman is NOT wife material.
That she tried to have. This Woman is sick, and I'm an athiest.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I thought the same thing. Tried for years to get pregnant and the kills the baby when she does.
What she will do is try to marry safe financial secure guy, play house with him get him on the hook, but every now and then re visit tatooed criminal "but this is the last time!" She will tell herself as she bangs him for the 400th time.
Good chance that hubby's gut signaled a red alarm and he left, he sensed her love story with the convinct and the chances that the kid wasnt even his.