“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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advice column question: I Can’t Decide Which of the Guys I’m Dating Is a Better “Investment”

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I’ve gone through a lot in the last year. My now ex-husband left me after I finally got pregnant after years of trying. I decided to get an abortion ...
I later started dating a friend of mine who’d supported me throughout the process. He’s not a conventional partner: He has a criminal history that he takes responsibility for, lives paycheck to paycheck, and is covered in tattoos, but he’s also smart, family-oriented, funny, and makes me feel excited and loved.
However, we were dating long-distance, which was very hard. I got frustrated and looked for local companionship. I found a conventionally attractive man who is kind, silly, sweet. But he doesn’t excite me like my long-distance flame.
On paper (literally, I’ve made compulsive lists), my local guy would be a better “investment.” In my heart, I long for my exciting, unconventional man.
my opinion: This woman is NOT wife material. :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well of course the guy with the criminal record and covered in tattoos excites her. People don’t just make this **** up just to do it when we say women love bums and losers. Love them! They’ll deny it but the proof is there time and time again.
 

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If she was a guy we would call this "thinking with his ****" but since she's a female its some kind of romantic fantasy about turning the tatted up criminal into husband of the year. And this advice chick sounds just as nutty as the one writing her.
 

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She's looking for a serious relationship, she wants a financially stable guy, who is also not emotionally weak, and have biggest SMV available to her. At this point though, she is tired of stable relationship with her husband, and wants to some turmoil in her life. She's an excellent cck carousel rider candidate. Don't hate female nature, embrace it, and use it to your advantage, manipulate the btches.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well at least the tax payers saved themselves a futher mouth to feed.
 

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my opinion: This woman is NOT wife material. :down:
You have a divorced, abortion, dating a long distance criminal, cheating on criminal with local safe guy -- woman, trying to make a logical decision using her feelings, instead of logical thought , asking the advice of an illogical woman, using feelings instead of rational thought, trying to give her advice on her mess of a situation.

And people out there still have the nerve to argue with me when i say the quality of dating women out there is getting worse by the day.

I hope both guys read this and both go Next!
 

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This is a common symptom of our modern, dying society.

People tend to like short term pleasure without worrying about long term consequences.

Structurally, girls going after a tatted up biker dude is not much different than eating fast food.

Feels good now, who cares what happens later?

The difference though is the the dudes she is NOT choosing (dudes on sosuave) is not really health food.

Which is why there is always plenty of whining to go around.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That she tried to have. This Woman is sick, and I'm an athiest.
I thought the same thing. Tried for years to get pregnant and the kills the baby when she does.

Reading this is only her side of the story. How do we know that the criminal guy that excites her wasn't the reason her and her husband split?
 

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Mike’s Advice:

1. Stay with the long-distance tattooed ex-con.

2. Leave the reliable local beta bux alone. He can better spend his money at the strip club or on video games.
What she will do is try to marry safe financial secure guy, play house with him get him on the hook, but every now and then re visit tatooed criminal "but this is the last time!" She will tell herself as she bangs him for the 400th time.
 

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I thought the same thing. Tried for years to get pregnant and the kills the baby when she does.

Reading this is only her side of the story. How do we know that the criminal guy that excites her wasn't the reason her and her husband split?
Good chance that hubby's gut signaled a red alarm and he left, he sensed her love story with the convinct and the chances that the kid wasnt even his.
 
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