Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
My opinion: Men find you barely attractive enough to be FWB, and your line about "emotionally unavailable men" is delusional.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
My answer to her would be that at that age, she should be grateful for whatever scraps of affection she can find.‘I’m in my 40s and like smart, attractive men, but that pool keeps getting smaller’
Tell Me About It: ‘For the last 10 years I’ve had short dating episodes with a divorced local man’www.irishtimes.com
My opinion: Men find you barely attractive enough to be FWB, and your line about "emotionally unavailable men" is delusional.