Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

advice column: ‘I’m in my 40s and like smart, attractive men, but that pool keeps getting smaller’

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
5,465
Reaction score
1,748
I’m a 49-year-old woman who seems to have learned nothing about how to have a relationship that works. I’m single and have no children.
I've always had men along the way, but just brief relationships. Men find me attractive, but as I get older there are fewer opportunities which I find sad. I constantly go for the emotionally unavailable men. I like smart, attractive men and they like me, but that pool keeps getting smaller ... For the last 10 years I’ve had short dating episodes with a local man who is divorced ... There is a really huge sexual draw with us and it never changes. He draws me in and we sleep together or date a bit. I look for more time and he gets overwhelmed and he runs.
My opinion: Men find you barely attractive enough to be FWB, and your line about "emotionally unavailable men" is delusional. :rolleyes:
 

OldComeBacker

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 21, 2020
Messages
45
Reaction score
59
Age
41
I couldn't even imagine banging a 49 year-old woman as a FWB. I question the level of this guy's attractiveness. Or maybe she is just exceptional for her age and just barely clears the bar for a quick NSA bang.
 

bat soup

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2020
Messages
1,312
Reaction score
1,446
Age
41

image

"If you love women, you must read the SoSuave Guide to Women. It's fantastic!"

Top