"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ADHD and Autism linked to early life gut microbiome imbalances

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The research was heading in that direction but interesting to see researchers find a smoking gun per se...

If anyone still doubts the importance of maintaining good gut microbiome health, this should pretty much end those doubts.

Poor gut microbiome health now has been shown to effect your children due to their initial gut microbes being passed by the mother during birth.

Effectively, any disease you can think of can pretty much be traced back to gut microbiome health at some point is where we are headed.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It seems like everything causes autism.

The best prevailing theory I've heard for ADHD, from Gabor Mate, is dysfunctional parents during childhood, the ADHD is "tuning out" or disassociating from the mental anguish. With autism, it seems to me like it's literally just "everything", especially markers of physical health, in fact people with autism are known to have physical inferiority.

I'd be curious to see the correlation between c-sections and autism. Traditional birth is the best way to pass on a healthy gut microbiome to your offspring, whereas a c-section is basically like giving a newborn a round of antibiotics.
 

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It seems like everything causes autism.

The best prevailing theory I've heard for ADHD, from Gabor Mate, is dysfunctional parents during childhood, the ADHD is "tuning out" or disassociating from the mental anguish. With autism, it seems to me like it's literally just "everything", especially markers of physical health, in fact people with autism are known to have physical inferiority.

I'd be curious to see the correlation between c-sections and autism. Traditional birth is the best way to pass on a healthy gut microbiome to your offspring, whereas a c-section is basically like giving a newborn a round of antibiotics.
Yes that is true...without a normal birth they miss out on some key microbes for developing proper gut health, especially lactobacillus and bifidobacterium.

They have actually found giving babies these probiotics have helped with some conditions.

The research I have seen says C-sections births increase the risk of autism by 25-35% depending on the studies.
 

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This could be a correlation does not equal causation issue.

It's normal for kids that are legitimately on the spectrum to be incredibly fussy eaters as children to the point where it's actually a problem. I had a relative that went to school with a kid that would literally only eat white food, stuff like that. I knew a family that had a severely autistic and mentally retarded child that for a very long time would literally only eat dinner rolls. There was also a phase where he ate this specific brand of canned beans, but for some reason the company changed the logo on the packaging and he would no longer eat it lol. Basically, these people are going to have very strange or abnormal gut microbiomes because they are eating such a limited variety of foods.
 

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It seems like everything causes autism.

The best prevailing theory I've heard for ADHD, from Gabor Mate, is dysfunctional parents during childhood, the ADHD is "tuning out" or disassociating from the mental anguish. With autism, it seems to me like it's literally just "everything", especially markers of physical health, in fact people with autism are known to have physical inferiority.

I'd be curious to see the correlation between c-sections and autism. Traditional birth is the best way to pass on a healthy gut microbiome to your offspring, whereas a c-section is basically like giving a newborn a round of antibiotics.
There seems to be a correlation between the amount of vaccination and autism.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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