"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Addiction

Kolads06

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Hey yall, I've realized that I'm becoming addicted to my phone, even though I only have whatsapp as a social media app on it now, I'm still very much addicted to it on other apps, I'll be doing something and I just take it up and start messing around on it, please help, any suggestions will be greatly helpful
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheTurtle

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Do you need the phone for work at all times? Do you need the phone for an alarm clock? Do you have a land line? Maybe try leaving your phone in your car's glove box a couple nights each week.
 

switch7

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try an app called forest. Alternatively you can use a pomodoros timer to only allow you to check your phone at certain intervals
 

Kolads06

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Do you need the phone for work at all times? Do you need the phone for an alarm clock? Do you have a land line? Maybe try leaving your phone in your car's glove box a couple nights each week.
I ain't got a car yet, but I'll try to put it on the dresser each night
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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