"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Addiction

Kolads06

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Hey yall, I've realized that I'm becoming addicted to my phone, even though I only have whatsapp as a social media app on it now, I'm still very much addicted to it on other apps, I'll be doing something and I just take it up and start messing around on it, please help, any suggestions will be greatly helpful
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheTurtle

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Do you need the phone for work at all times? Do you need the phone for an alarm clock? Do you have a land line? Maybe try leaving your phone in your car's glove box a couple nights each week.
 

switch7

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try an app called forest. Alternatively you can use a pomodoros timer to only allow you to check your phone at certain intervals
 

Kolads06

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Do you need the phone for work at all times? Do you need the phone for an alarm clock? Do you have a land line? Maybe try leaving your phone in your car's glove box a couple nights each week.
I ain't got a car yet, but I'll try to put it on the dresser each night
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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