"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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added her on facebook, got talking now shes said yes to a date

bobafatt

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Been a bit of a pest today online, There's a few hot single and vunerable girls on my facebook and decided to send them all a rose emoji today which has actually worked well.

Anyway this one in particular we have small talk and I ended up asking her out on a date and she accepted, now my question is how to play it from here..do I set up a time and date and leave it at that? carry on speaking to her for a bit and then arrange? Should I ask for her number and get the conversation off of facebook?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Young OG

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Been a bit of a pest today online, There's a few hot single and vunerable girls on my facebook and decided to send them all a rose emoji today which has actually worked well.

Anyway this one in particular we have small talk and I ended up asking her out on a date and she accepted, now my question is how to play it from here..do I set up a time and date and leave it at that? carry on speaking to her for a bit and then arrange? Should I ask for her number and get the conversation off of facebook?
Get her number and get off facebook. Text her and throw in some small talk before you set up the date. That will make you not look desperate. Invite her to meet for drinks. Set up what night it is going to be but not the place yet. Tell her you will get back to her with the place and time. I do this so it gives me a reason to contact them again. Text her the next day with the place and time.
 
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