"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
add a "where to go for dates" forum :)
- Thread starter DragonChi
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Its your first post and your asking for a new forum??
If you are curious for date ideas, post a question in Discussion on where you should go for some dates, or check out the bible.
Mr. Mystery
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ya thx for mak'in me feel welcome jackass......
but anyways i mean like i guess a section in the
tips sections for dates and stuff.....
i dunno like i collection of places to go or do.....
but i guess i'm newbie here so theres no point in my say'in anything......
Actually, stop acting like a drama queen and do a little exploring on this website....there is a compiled list of posts conveniently titled the Don Juan Bible. Sosuave DOES have an entire website outside this forum, on which there are MANY different sections filled with different tidbits and advice. There is even a search function for you to look for posts that might not be on the main website or in the DJ Bible.
The fact is that a large number of new people come here and don't do the proper research before making posts in this forum. Everything is almost there already, just not in pretty little boxes that different people like to organise them in.
Just do a search and a quick browse before posting next time...you'll find most of the answers already here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gosh it's only your second post and you are already flaming people.
You are right there is no point in saying anything if you are not willing to do the work before trying to put your two cents into what should be done here.
Take a look around before you start making "helpful" suggestions. You might find what you are looking for.
Liz
i got lots of posts that aren't related to what i was look'in for,
sorry for the flame,
and if a mod reads this, might as well delete the thread, ty,
this is a great place to feel good about urself and learn
how to LIVE.... instead of just pick up chicks,
i really apreciate all of this......
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
He knows he introduced himself to us the wrong way but lets give him a break!
Its not that serious, lets move on...
Mr. Mystery