"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
add a "where to go for dates" forum :)
- Thread starter DragonChi
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Its your first post and your asking for a new forum??
If you are curious for date ideas, post a question in Discussion on where you should go for some dates, or check out the bible.
Mr. Mystery
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ya thx for mak'in me feel welcome jackass......
but anyways i mean like i guess a section in the
tips sections for dates and stuff.....
i dunno like i collection of places to go or do.....
but i guess i'm newbie here so theres no point in my say'in anything......
Actually, stop acting like a drama queen and do a little exploring on this website....there is a compiled list of posts conveniently titled the Don Juan Bible. Sosuave DOES have an entire website outside this forum, on which there are MANY different sections filled with different tidbits and advice. There is even a search function for you to look for posts that might not be on the main website or in the DJ Bible.
The fact is that a large number of new people come here and don't do the proper research before making posts in this forum. Everything is almost there already, just not in pretty little boxes that different people like to organise them in.
Just do a search and a quick browse before posting next time...you'll find most of the answers already here.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Gosh it's only your second post and you are already flaming people.
You are right there is no point in saying anything if you are not willing to do the work before trying to put your two cents into what should be done here.
Take a look around before you start making "helpful" suggestions. You might find what you are looking for.
Liz
i got lots of posts that aren't related to what i was look'in for,
sorry for the flame,
and if a mod reads this, might as well delete the thread, ty,
this is a great place to feel good about urself and learn
how to LIVE.... instead of just pick up chicks,
i really apreciate all of this......
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
He knows he introduced himself to us the wrong way but lets give him a break!
Its not that serious, lets move on...
Mr. Mystery