"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
add a "where to go for dates" forum :)
- Thread starter DragonChi
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
Its your first post and your asking for a new forum??
If you are curious for date ideas, post a question in Discussion on where you should go for some dates, or check out the bible.
Mr. Mystery
Giovanni Casanova
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ya thx for mak'in me feel welcome jackass......
but anyways i mean like i guess a section in the
tips sections for dates and stuff.....
i dunno like i collection of places to go or do.....
but i guess i'm newbie here so theres no point in my say'in anything......
Actually, stop acting like a drama queen and do a little exploring on this website....there is a compiled list of posts conveniently titled the Don Juan Bible. Sosuave DOES have an entire website outside this forum, on which there are MANY different sections filled with different tidbits and advice. There is even a search function for you to look for posts that might not be on the main website or in the DJ Bible.
The fact is that a large number of new people come here and don't do the proper research before making posts in this forum. Everything is almost there already, just not in pretty little boxes that different people like to organise them in.
Just do a search and a quick browse before posting next time...you'll find most of the answers already here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Gosh it's only your second post and you are already flaming people.
You are right there is no point in saying anything if you are not willing to do the work before trying to put your two cents into what should be done here.
Take a look around before you start making "helpful" suggestions. You might find what you are looking for.
Liz
i got lots of posts that aren't related to what i was look'in for,
sorry for the flame,
and if a mod reads this, might as well delete the thread, ty,
this is a great place to feel good about urself and learn
how to LIVE.... instead of just pick up chicks,
i really apreciate all of this......
Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
He knows he introduced himself to us the wrong way but lets give him a break!
Its not that serious, lets move on...
Mr. Mystery