"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adam on The Apprentice

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Adam was the 22-year old jewish guy on The Apprentice that was a virgin when the show aired.

22 is a bit old, but not really too late. The important thing I'd like to point out, if you watch the show, is that he has a lot of AFC mannerisms. You'll note that he has a really high voice and still talks about sex like it was some sort of romantic thing. A sort of effiminate air about him.

Adam's not gay, and I'm not insinuating that. What I'm pointing out is that when we're AFC(or virgin), we haven't learned to hone in on those specific mannerisms are attractive to women. Use Adam as the example of what NOT to do when dealing women and people in general.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yeah, but just think about how much p*ssy hes going to get if he wins.

EDIT: oh yeah, he lost yesterday, nevermind.
 

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he is gay.

he even admitted it like 3 episodes ago.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
yeah, but just think about how much p*ssy hes going to get if he wins.

EDIT: oh yeah, he lost yesterday, nevermind.
i don't watch. but he'll get p*ssy anyway (unless gay) even if he loses.



to the original poser, its interesting you suggest AFC = virgin.

when i first had sex, my mannerisms and such did not change at all. it wasn't as if the shackles had been removed and I was now some supreme player.
 

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Originally posted by C00L
he is gay.

he even admitted it like 3 episodes ago.
Are you sure you're not getting Adam mixed up with Clay?

Clay is the gay guy. Adam is the virgin. Clay has blonde hair, Adam has black hair.

Ironically, Clay seems more masculine in some ways than Adam.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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to the original poser, its interesting you suggest AFC = virgin.

when i first had sex, my mannerisms and such did not change at all. it wasn't as if the shackles had been removed and I was now some supreme player. [/B]
True, and we all wrestle with AFCism from time to time, but think of being a virgin as being AFC by default.

I had to overcome AFCness to at least lose my virginity, but I suppose under certain circumstances guys can get laid and still be AFC if the women they're with are pretty inexperienced as well.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
True, and we all wrestle with AFCism from time to time, but think of being a virgin as being AFC by default.

I had to overcome AFCness to at least lose my virginity, but I suppose under certain circumstances guys can get laid and still be AFC if the women they're with are pretty inexperienced as well.
I think you'll find many AFCs are married with children.

many AFCs are also out at clubs getting one night stands.

being an AFC doesn't mean you're not getting laid.
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE

many AFCs are also out at clubs getting one night stands.
How can they get ONS's and still be AFCs?

Yeah, I can see that married guys would be AFC. The strategy of a lot of people is to try to get married by 23, so they do, before they really develop any solid relationship skills.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
How can they get ONS's and still be AFCs?

Yeah, I can see that married guys would be AFC. The strategy of a lot of people is to try to get married by 23, so they do, before they really develop any solid relationship skills.
its really not hard.

I had f*cked 4 girls before i came to this site.

I didn't consider myself a NON AFC (DJ if you will) fully, until the start of this year. I had since f*cked a further 6 girls, one of which was an 8 month LTR.

You don't need smooth moves/lines/bulging muscles to get laid.. they just help.
 

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I've seen a few episodes this season.

Adam looks like he's about 17. Very young, very green, very akward about sex. Did you see The Donald grill him about being a virgin in front of a national audience?

Felisha and Rebecca....couple of hotties (8's in my book). I'd rate Alla, maybe a 6.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by GQ_Confidence_1
Did you see The Donald grill him about being a virgin in front of a national audience?

Felisha and Rebecca....couple of hotties (8's in my book). I'd rate Alla, maybe a 6.
It was pretty funny when he did that and then later on they have a shot of Adam surrounded by the 'hotties' back in the suite. It looked like they were about to give him a lesson. But they didn't. Probably because they thought he was gay.

Did anyone see the part in the boardroom where the Donald asks Clay: "Clay? Are you a homosexual". very funny
 

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Originally posted by ChampusMaximus
It was pretty funny when he did that and then later on they have a shot of Adam surrounded by the 'hotties' back in the suite. It looked like they were about to give him a lesson. But they didn't. Probably because they thought he was gay.

Did anyone see the part in the boardroom where the Donald asks Clay: "Clay? Are you a homosexual". very funny
I thought Adam played it really cool. He didn't answer the question and just moved on. Donald then gave this hilarious speech about..."someday Adam...you're going to LOVE sex. I love sex....it's gotten me in a lot of trouble though."

Then referring to Clay....Trump said..."do you find the girls attractive....well, that's why there's menus in restaurants...some people like steak...some like spaghetti...."

LOL. Comparing homosexuality to some kind of menu.
 
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