"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Adam on The Apprentice

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Adam was the 22-year old jewish guy on The Apprentice that was a virgin when the show aired.

22 is a bit old, but not really too late. The important thing I'd like to point out, if you watch the show, is that he has a lot of AFC mannerisms. You'll note that he has a really high voice and still talks about sex like it was some sort of romantic thing. A sort of effiminate air about him.

Adam's not gay, and I'm not insinuating that. What I'm pointing out is that when we're AFC(or virgin), we haven't learned to hone in on those specific mannerisms are attractive to women. Use Adam as the example of what NOT to do when dealing women and people in general.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah, but just think about how much p*ssy hes going to get if he wins.

EDIT: oh yeah, he lost yesterday, nevermind.
 

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he is gay.

he even admitted it like 3 episodes ago.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
yeah, but just think about how much p*ssy hes going to get if he wins.

EDIT: oh yeah, he lost yesterday, nevermind.
i don't watch. but he'll get p*ssy anyway (unless gay) even if he loses.



to the original poser, its interesting you suggest AFC = virgin.

when i first had sex, my mannerisms and such did not change at all. it wasn't as if the shackles had been removed and I was now some supreme player.
 

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Originally posted by C00L
he is gay.

he even admitted it like 3 episodes ago.
Are you sure you're not getting Adam mixed up with Clay?

Clay is the gay guy. Adam is the virgin. Clay has blonde hair, Adam has black hair.

Ironically, Clay seems more masculine in some ways than Adam.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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to the original poser, its interesting you suggest AFC = virgin.

when i first had sex, my mannerisms and such did not change at all. it wasn't as if the shackles had been removed and I was now some supreme player. [/B]
True, and we all wrestle with AFCism from time to time, but think of being a virgin as being AFC by default.

I had to overcome AFCness to at least lose my virginity, but I suppose under certain circumstances guys can get laid and still be AFC if the women they're with are pretty inexperienced as well.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
True, and we all wrestle with AFCism from time to time, but think of being a virgin as being AFC by default.

I had to overcome AFCness to at least lose my virginity, but I suppose under certain circumstances guys can get laid and still be AFC if the women they're with are pretty inexperienced as well.
I think you'll find many AFCs are married with children.

many AFCs are also out at clubs getting one night stands.

being an AFC doesn't mean you're not getting laid.
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE

many AFCs are also out at clubs getting one night stands.
How can they get ONS's and still be AFCs?

Yeah, I can see that married guys would be AFC. The strategy of a lot of people is to try to get married by 23, so they do, before they really develop any solid relationship skills.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
How can they get ONS's and still be AFCs?

Yeah, I can see that married guys would be AFC. The strategy of a lot of people is to try to get married by 23, so they do, before they really develop any solid relationship skills.
its really not hard.

I had f*cked 4 girls before i came to this site.

I didn't consider myself a NON AFC (DJ if you will) fully, until the start of this year. I had since f*cked a further 6 girls, one of which was an 8 month LTR.

You don't need smooth moves/lines/bulging muscles to get laid.. they just help.
 

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I've seen a few episodes this season.

Adam looks like he's about 17. Very young, very green, very akward about sex. Did you see The Donald grill him about being a virgin in front of a national audience?

Felisha and Rebecca....couple of hotties (8's in my book). I'd rate Alla, maybe a 6.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by GQ_Confidence_1
Did you see The Donald grill him about being a virgin in front of a national audience?

Felisha and Rebecca....couple of hotties (8's in my book). I'd rate Alla, maybe a 6.
It was pretty funny when he did that and then later on they have a shot of Adam surrounded by the 'hotties' back in the suite. It looked like they were about to give him a lesson. But they didn't. Probably because they thought he was gay.

Did anyone see the part in the boardroom where the Donald asks Clay: "Clay? Are you a homosexual". very funny
 

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Originally posted by ChampusMaximus
It was pretty funny when he did that and then later on they have a shot of Adam surrounded by the 'hotties' back in the suite. It looked like they were about to give him a lesson. But they didn't. Probably because they thought he was gay.

Did anyone see the part in the boardroom where the Donald asks Clay: "Clay? Are you a homosexual". very funny
I thought Adam played it really cool. He didn't answer the question and just moved on. Donald then gave this hilarious speech about..."someday Adam...you're going to LOVE sex. I love sex....it's gotten me in a lot of trouble though."

Then referring to Clay....Trump said..."do you find the girls attractive....well, that's why there's menus in restaurants...some people like steak...some like spaghetti...."

LOL. Comparing homosexuality to some kind of menu.
 
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