“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Action date at the club?

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So I called this myspace ***** out of boredom to set something up, and she said she wanted something exciting when I mentioned hanging out at the movies (this would be our second date). So she suggested we go to the club in the city. I'm not attracted to her, so I figure it would be fun for me to mingle with other girls at the club, so I said why not.

Should I go ahead and use her to get other girls or is she just wanting to dance with me? Either way, it'll be fun for me since I've never been to a club.
 

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Use her to get other girls? I wouldn't even goto the trouble to setup a date with this girl if you aren't attracted to her. You can always start up a conversation with girls at the club, which will get just as much attention.

It sounds like to me that you're overthinking things a lot. Just go out, have fun, and talk to some women. Having another girl with you isn't necessarily going to get you 'in' with other girls.
 
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Vanilla said:
So she suggested we go to the club in the city. I'm not attracted to her, so I figure it would be fun for me to mingle with other girls at the club, so I said why not.

Should I go ahead and use her to get other girls or is she just wanting to dance with me? Either way, it'll be fun for me since I've never been to a club.
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Never been to a club? Ouch.

Maybe she's using you to make other guys at the club jealous.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Never been to a club? Ouch.

Maybe she's using you to make other guys at the club jealous.
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I haven't been since I would feel weird going by myself. She did sound excited that I wanted to go, but I was thinking it was just because she gets a chance to look at the other guys. Clearly I'm wrong about that and I thank you guys ahead of time.
 
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