"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Action date at the club?

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So I called this myspace ***** out of boredom to set something up, and she said she wanted something exciting when I mentioned hanging out at the movies (this would be our second date). So she suggested we go to the club in the city. I'm not attracted to her, so I figure it would be fun for me to mingle with other girls at the club, so I said why not.

Should I go ahead and use her to get other girls or is she just wanting to dance with me? Either way, it'll be fun for me since I've never been to a club.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Use her to get other girls? I wouldn't even goto the trouble to setup a date with this girl if you aren't attracted to her. You can always start up a conversation with girls at the club, which will get just as much attention.

It sounds like to me that you're overthinking things a lot. Just go out, have fun, and talk to some women. Having another girl with you isn't necessarily going to get you 'in' with other girls.
 
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Vanilla said:
So she suggested we go to the club in the city. I'm not attracted to her, so I figure it would be fun for me to mingle with other girls at the club, so I said why not.

Should I go ahead and use her to get other girls or is she just wanting to dance with me? Either way, it'll be fun for me since I've never been to a club.
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Never been to a club? Ouch.

Maybe she's using you to make other guys at the club jealous.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Never been to a club? Ouch.

Maybe she's using you to make other guys at the club jealous.
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I haven't been since I would feel weird going by myself. She did sound excited that I wanted to go, but I was thinking it was just because she gets a chance to look at the other guys. Clearly I'm wrong about that and I thank you guys ahead of time.
 
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