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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Acting needy / desperate around friends

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DJnoob

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Does anyone here do this? Whats your point of view about acting around friends.
I kinda sense sometimes that when you act desperate around guy friends and girl friends they can tell.. and don't like friends like that.

What you guys think?>

For example:
You get a text message from a girl, do you respond to it right away or do you wait a while then reply back
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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im afraid to be alone and not have friends.
Thats just how i feel in the core. Im posting things like this here cause no one knows me here. LoL, i would never tell a single soul about this offline. This is the only place where i can talk about random things like this
 
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super, how do you act around your guy friends and girl friends?

"fear of loss is the path to the darkside" i like that a lot.. It's kinda true...

THis from yoda?
 
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Do you have to have "worth/value" something to have more friends?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Originally posted by DJnoob
Do you have to have "worth/value" something to have more friends?
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Listen man, I know where you're coming from. It's not about how many friends you have, its the character that your friends possess, their compatiblity with your personality and how happy you are hanging out with them. The same as with girls right? I don't have alot of friends bc most ppl bore me to death and do the same shheet every weekend.....plus the fact that my old friends perma-flaked on me bc they were jealous, but that's another story.
 
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hey broham.. Ok guy friends i have but girl friends i dont...

Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
 
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Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
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why does this matter watsoever??!
 
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because i need to know =). I really need to know badly, its one of those "mysteries of the universe for me"
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
hey broham.. Ok guy friends i have but girl friends i dont...

Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
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Depends how shallow they are. I tend to hang out with attractive people (guys and girls) but I am pretty shallow :) But with friends in general you really can be yourself. So long as you're not a complete ashole.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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I don't know bout acting desperate around friends...cos I don't...but you're really acting desperate on this forum mate...chill out!
 
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