"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Acting needy / desperate around friends

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DJnoob

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Does anyone here do this? Whats your point of view about acting around friends.
I kinda sense sometimes that when you act desperate around guy friends and girl friends they can tell.. and don't like friends like that.

What you guys think?>

For example:
You get a text message from a girl, do you respond to it right away or do you wait a while then reply back
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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DJnoob

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im afraid to be alone and not have friends.
Thats just how i feel in the core. Im posting things like this here cause no one knows me here. LoL, i would never tell a single soul about this offline. This is the only place where i can talk about random things like this
 
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DJnoob

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super, how do you act around your guy friends and girl friends?

"fear of loss is the path to the darkside" i like that a lot.. It's kinda true...

THis from yoda?
 
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Do you have to have "worth/value" something to have more friends?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broham

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Originally posted by DJnoob
Do you have to have "worth/value" something to have more friends?
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Listen man, I know where you're coming from. It's not about how many friends you have, its the character that your friends possess, their compatiblity with your personality and how happy you are hanging out with them. The same as with girls right? I don't have alot of friends bc most ppl bore me to death and do the same shheet every weekend.....plus the fact that my old friends perma-flaked on me bc they were jealous, but that's another story.
 
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hey broham.. Ok guy friends i have but girl friends i dont...

Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
 
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Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
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why does this matter watsoever??!
 
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DJnoob

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because i need to know =). I really need to know badly, its one of those "mysteries of the universe for me"
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
hey broham.. Ok guy friends i have but girl friends i dont...

Do you guys think girls need to have even the smallest amount of attraction to be EVEN JUST a friend to you?
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Depends how shallow they are. I tend to hang out with attractive people (guys and girls) but I am pretty shallow :) But with friends in general you really can be yourself. So long as you're not a complete ashole.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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I don't know bout acting desperate around friends...cos I don't...but you're really acting desperate on this forum mate...chill out!
 
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