So so true. This revenge you speak of is a myth. You'll only reveal the depths that she has driven you to. You can't hurt her mentally, and frankly there's no reason to. She didn't hunt you down and torture you. She displayed no interest in you, but you kept calling her, begging for more punishment. Think of this as your first test.
1. Pursue revenge - you'll show that you allow random girls to control your physical and mental actions. Instead of making yourself happy, your goal is the futile attempt to make 1 girl out of the billions in the world unhappy. You're not in control of yourself and girls will smell this from miles away. Congratulations, you're a doormat. You'll probably be one for years to come.
2. Move on - you''ll have taken the first steps to putting yourself first. Someone has hurt you, but you've realized that it's only because you've allowed them to. You've decided that from now on you're going to take responsibility for your own happiness and will not allow girls or anyone else to change that. It'll be slow at first, but eventually you'll look back on the person you were and cringe. "How could such a simple decision have appeared so hard?"
