You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I think the "secret" is to act interested without caring. Its ok tooneboy21 said:If i act dis-interested in a girl, will that be any help.
Like throwing some negs and acting totally dis-interested. the girl i am about to meet has Low IL.
what would be the best way to deal with this.
yes. Yes. YES!st_99 said:I think the "secret" is to act interested without caring. Its ok to
let a girl know you're interested, but you GENUINELY can't care about any
reaction from her.
You can't pretend to not care, you really cant care.
Easy to say, hard to pull off, but its the holy grail.
Good advice! Learn how to not care whether a single woman likes you or not. There will be others out there, right?st_99 said:I think the "secret" is to act interested without caring. Its ok to
let a girl know you're interested, but you GENUINELY can't care about any
reaction from her.
You can't pretend to not care, you really cant care.
Easy to say, hard to pull off, but its the holy grail.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah, that's exactly true! What I've learned is that how you handle your own feelings and react with them can really influence your attractiveness and success as a man. I'm not saying it's not hard to do.maverick72 said:But here is the catch. You cannot turn your feelings on and off for a girl. You either have feelings for a girl or you don't. I try to avoid the "caring feelings" as much as I can, but sometimes it gets the best of me. Other times, it feels great to go out with a hot girl knowing I could care less if I see this girl again because it puts me in the drivers seat. That is when I get laid the most.