"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jhonny9546

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We often see wealthy people holding books, but do they actually read them? Or are they just showing You what to do in order to "not" be successfull? Reading isn’t bad, but doing it without purpose leads nowhere.


Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful. Read only what you truly need. At the time you need.
The only thing that separates an active person from a passive one is action.



Did you need books or videos to take your first step?
No.
Did you need knowledge to understand mistakes?
Yes.
Once you’ve learned, go back to action. Apply it.


Action is life
Thought makes us human, but thought is useful only when paired with action.
Think while acting, not instead of acting


Working at a computer can give the illusion of doing, but it's often just thinking without movement
Even a waiter learns key social skills by simply doing.



If you have great resources, books, tools, about acting or what made you actually understand this thing, and helped, share them.
But remember: 10 minutes a day for reading, the rest should be for action.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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plumber

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We often see wealthy people holding books, but do they actually read them? Or are they just showing You what to do in order to "not" be successfull? Reading isn’t bad, but doing it without purpose leads nowhere.


Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful. Read only what you truly need. At the time you need.
The only thing that separates an active person from a passive one is action.



Did you need books or videos to take your first step?
No.
Did you need knowledge to understand mistakes?
Yes.
Once you’ve learned, go back to action. Apply it.


Action is life
Thought makes us human, but thought is useful only when paired with action.
Think while acting, not instead of acting


Working at a computer can give the illusion of doing, but it's often just thinking without movement
Even a waiter learns key social skills by simply doing.



If you have great resources, books, tools, about acting or what made you actually understand this thing, and helped, share them.
But remember: 10 minutes a day for reading, the rest should be for action.
ha ha, refer to your first sentence in this. it sounds like you should at least be holding a book to be seen holding it.

there is enough time in each day to read and take action. don't have to choose one or the other.
 

BaronOfHair

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Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful
Yeah... You're unlikely to become a modern day, Italian answer to Joachim Kroll, just by reading biographies of the guy. Actually luring gals into your home, getting them into the oven, then down your gullet is a pre-requisite for earning such a designation
 
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