"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jhonny9546

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We often see wealthy people holding books, but do they actually read them? Or are they just showing You what to do in order to "not" be successfull? Reading isn’t bad, but doing it without purpose leads nowhere.


Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful. Read only what you truly need. At the time you need.
The only thing that separates an active person from a passive one is action.



Did you need books or videos to take your first step?
No.
Did you need knowledge to understand mistakes?
Yes.
Once you’ve learned, go back to action. Apply it.


Action is life
Thought makes us human, but thought is useful only when paired with action.
Think while acting, not instead of acting


Working at a computer can give the illusion of doing, but it's often just thinking without movement
Even a waiter learns key social skills by simply doing.



If you have great resources, books, tools, about acting or what made you actually understand this thing, and helped, share them.
But remember: 10 minutes a day for reading, the rest should be for action.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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plumber

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We often see wealthy people holding books, but do they actually read them? Or are they just showing You what to do in order to "not" be successfull? Reading isn’t bad, but doing it without purpose leads nowhere.


Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful. Read only what you truly need. At the time you need.
The only thing that separates an active person from a passive one is action.



Did you need books or videos to take your first step?
No.
Did you need knowledge to understand mistakes?
Yes.
Once you’ve learned, go back to action. Apply it.


Action is life
Thought makes us human, but thought is useful only when paired with action.
Think while acting, not instead of acting


Working at a computer can give the illusion of doing, but it's often just thinking without movement
Even a waiter learns key social skills by simply doing.



If you have great resources, books, tools, about acting or what made you actually understand this thing, and helped, share them.
But remember: 10 minutes a day for reading, the rest should be for action.
ha ha, refer to your first sentence in this. it sounds like you should at least be holding a book to be seen holding it.

there is enough time in each day to read and take action. don't have to choose one or the other.
 

BaronOfHair

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Too much reading, too much information, can be harmful
Yeah... You're unlikely to become a modern day, Italian answer to Joachim Kroll, just by reading biographies of the guy. Actually luring gals into your home, getting them into the oven, then down your gullet is a pre-requisite for earning such a designation
 
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